Today my devotional from My Utmost For His Highest centered around disillusionment. I’ve struggled with this for so many years now. God had an original intention for this world to run perfectly and in harmony, but because of sin that design was shattered. Yet somehow I keep expecting things to get back to a perfect state, and I have this grand illusion that I will be better off. I think to myself “once this happens” or “once I can attain/achieve that” then everything will become so much better in my life. Yes, certain people, possessions or accomplishments can make life easier for me, but to what extent and what type of standard am I measuring it against? Just to receive comforts in life alone is not enough to make my time here worthwhile. God’s intent for me is to grow through the here and now, and not be living in a fairy tale in my mind where I believe certain scenarios will make me happier than how I feel at this moment.
These past couple weeks have been so difficult on my heart, mind and soul. I can’t understand why certain situations are allowed to continue, or why things have seemed to come to a halt for me instead of progressing forward. Anger and bitterness were fighting ruthlessly to gain back ground in my heart, and yes it did take some back. Now I have to repeat the painful process of trying to let that go and let God show His compassion and grace through me to the rest of the world. I’m not in the pit of depression like I have been in the past, and thank God for that much progress.
My daughter wanted to quit piano already over some foolish reason, and I had to explain to her that she can’t give up because of some minor irritation. It resonated in my soul that God is trying to teach me the exact same thing on a much grander scale in regards to my life. I can’t give up my time with God or trusting in Him, because what am I left with then that would possibly make my life any better?
I am not an extremely materialistic person – I do wish I had more conveniences in my life, and I’ve had to adapt to living without. Instead, I turn to people to try to fill my needs. Here is what Oswald Chambers wrote in the devotion I read today:
“Refusing to be disillusioned is the cause of much of the suffering of human life. And this is how that suffering happens – if we love someone, but do not love God, we demand total perfection and righteousness from that person, and when we do not get it we become cruel and vindictive; yet we are demanding of a human being something which he or she cannot possibly give. There is only one Being who can completely satisfy to the absolute depth of the hurting human heart, and that is the Lord Jesus Christ. Our Lord is so obviously uncompromising with regard to every human relationship because He knows that every relationship that is not based on faithfulness to Himself will end in disaster. Our Lord trusted no one, and never placed His faith in people, yet He was never suspicious or bitter. Our Lord’s confidence in God, and in what God’s grace could do for anyone, was so perfect that He never despaired, never giving up hope for any person. If our trust is placed in human beings, we will end up despairing of everyone.”
So no matter how much I keep turning to other people for help, it will all be futile if I do not admit and accept that God has to be the center, the very center, of my desires. Yes, He wants to use others to encourage me and help bear my burdens, but they are imperfect human beings with a limited source of strength and resources. No one can fully give me everything I need to live my life, and I need to stop this disillusionment of expecting to be filled up or completed through anything or anyone else besides the Almighty God who created me. Every time I am disappointed by another person’s comments, actions, or lack of response, I need to differentiate between fact and feelings and then accept that they will be held accountable for themselves some day. I have a much greater Source to rely on through my hard times right now, and His help is infinitely greater than the best of intentions or assistance from anyone else on this planet.